The version of 'you guys' I'm including you in are those who insist that the rest of us just accept 'trans women are actual women' whole cloth and without any hint of either questioning or disagreement. Even using the term 'cis' shows you've taken the knee to this unhinged and alarmingly 'religious' denial of fundamental reality. I draw your attention to the first part of my response to Gemma wherein I point out it's not just 'safety' we're concerned with - but women's right to privacy and comfort. This is important, and attempts to dismiss it raise our ire. We've seen multiple examples of 'trans women' inflicting their naked bodies including male penises into change rooms, spas, saunas, waxing salons etc. that are supposed to be free and safe for actual women from such confrontations and potential threats. I wouldn't expect you to sit next to a cheetah or leopard and be comfortable simply by insisting they were tame, right?